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Hair Fire or Heart Fire?

In a world where we’re constantly being bombarded with the question, “What’s your purpose? Have you discovered your purpose?”, our human nature is to jump into striving mode to find it and prove to the world we’re good at it.

I call this ‘living with our hair on fire’. Hair fire living is when we’re striving to be ‘enough’ so we feel validated, worthy, or accepted. But in that striving mode to measure up, there’s always the ‘next level’ of being enough. What felt like ‘enough’ today becomes not enough on the social media stage of comparison tomorrow. The chase after purpose (validation / reason for being created)  is never ending.

Truth:

Purpose in life is not something to be chased after or measured by others. We are born with one purpose – to glorify God wherever He places us.

yet for us there is but one God, the Father, who is the source of all things, and we exist for Him; and one Lord, Jesus Christ, by whom are all things [that have been created], and we [believers exist and have life and have been redeemed] through Him. ~ 1 Corinthians 8:6 AMP

We are created with a heart fire to glorify God. It’s our literal purpose, our reason for being created.

But I have raised you up for this very purpose, that I might show you my power and that my name might be proclaimed in all the earth. ~Exodus 9:16

The opposite of living with our hair on fire is living with our heart on fire.

For it is [not your strength, but it is] God who is effectively at work in you, both to will and to work [that is, strengthening, energizing, and creating in you the longing and the ability to fulfill your purpose] for His good pleasure. ~ Philippians 2:13 AMP

Am I Enough?

There is a common phrase that floats around social media that says ‘I am enough’ – and it feeds hair fire living. This ‘I’ve got this, watch me’ mantra drives us into a life of proving we’re independently enough.

Truth is, I’m not enough.

Truth is also this…

In Christ – I’m more than enough.

This is heart fire living

Let’s be still for a moment and let God stoke our heart fires. Let Him breath into you His truths and watch the heart fire flames be revived.

A Conversation with God

Where you see [__] insert your name and let God’s words speak life into you today.

[__], Stop focusing on being independently enough. This is where the enemy sneaks in to kill and destroy your confidence, reminding you of past failures and current fears.

[__], when you say ‘I am enough’, the focus is on you, not Me IN you. I am the one who gives you more than you need to be more than enough.


[__], in Christ, I have given you all the strength, wisdom, power, endurance, patience, creativity, love, self-control….

[__], I supply your every need. In Christ you have all you need to be…

[__], whatever you need to do, be or withstand, you are MORE than enough in Christ. I have given you the same power that raised Christ from the dead

[__], in Christ, you are MORE than enough and equipped to do all that I created you to do, for My glory.

Deeper Conversations at His Table

Ready to sit at His table for two and have a deeper conversation? Here are some conversations starters for you to take to the table where you can hear God speak wisdom, awareness, healing and truth over you. Use these questions to chat with God. Let Him bring you into a deeper relationship with Him.

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